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April 23, 2009

Toddler troubles

By Heidi Soholt

 

I’m back at the keyboard again after a couple of weeks off from blogging.

 

Part of my Easter consisted of a sunshine break at a 5 star resort in Turkey. Lovely, you may think, and yes, in some ways it was. However, I’d just like to point out one thing – one year olds and foreign travel are a really bad combination.

 

We discovered this as soon as we boarded the nearly five hour flight to Antalya. My besotted mother-in-law likes to describe my toddler daughter as a ‘free spirit’. We, rather more realistically, usually sum her up as a baby Terminator. The child is completely turbo-charged with a seemingly astronomically high pain threshold. She practically never cries after enduring her daily bumps and tumbles, and is completely fearless as a result. As soon as we were told to buckle up for take off, the thrashing about started. Confinement of any kind sends her into a frenzy. By the time we were air borne, the whole family and the family we were holidaying with, were exhausted. She then moved on to screaming, then hitting, then bulldozing her way across the seats to try to escape, and so on. For the whole flight.

 

By the time we disembarked, my body was glistening with sweat and shaking from what can only be described as an endurance test from hell. None of the other passengers would even look us in the eye, they were so horrified. And the little one? She fell asleep the minute we collected her buggy of the baggage carousel. Not one wink of sleep the whole flight, but deep slumber as soon as we arrived. Fabulous.

 

Having regained a tiny bit of composure on the bus to the resort, I was once again put into deep stress mode when I saw our apartment, or to be more precise, what lay outside our apartment. Not one, but two, swimming pools, right at the end of our patio. As soon as she clocked them, my daughter made a bee-line for the deep end, squealing in delight. Hubby and I chased after her as fast as we could, only just managing to avert disaster. I resigned myself to a week of never letting the toddler stray further than about a foot from my side, and headed for the bar for a much-needed stiff drink.

 

After the very unpromising start we did however manage to enjoy ourselves. The six-year-old and his pal had an absolute ball – swimming by day and Nintendo by night. The sun shone every day and it was heaven waking up to bright blue skies. The food was delicious and the people incredibly friendly. I would really recommend Turkey as a holiday destination – especially if you are toddler-free!

 

We came home to grey clouds and cold, and it was back to normal again this week. The six-year-old, who started summer term on Monday, has definitely gone through a growth spurt – I had trouble prising his school jumper off him tonight. Think I’ll make a trip down to the local uniform outfitters for larger sizes, which also means putting in an order to Labels4kids – their fuss-free stikins stick on clothing labels are the best on the market.

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April 17, 2009

Fundraising for schools – get brochures NOW

A reminder to our fundraisers that Induction days for 2009 intake a coming up soon and they should get in quick for their pile of brochures to send out to parents and prospective parents to earn more commission from labelling sales. 

Just email us at sales@labels4kids.com and either Sarah or I will pick it up and get the brochures or web cards out to you asap. The new updated version of the A4 brochure will be ready in a week’s time with the new press and click fasteners, press and click name tags and also the original iron on or sew on labels which are now quicker turnaround and no longer a seasonal product. Not only that but they are all cut and bagged too.

Also remember to get downloads of A4 posters from the fundraising page of our site for your open days and induction days and pin them around the school and also give us a mention on your newsletters each month and do a website link from your school website.  The link details are:

Visit the Labels4Kids website for a great range of personalised iron on, sew on and stick on <a href=”http://www.labels4kids.com/“>name labels</a>.

All these tiny things make a HUGE difference to the money you earn.

Also there are a few schools we have been trying to contact but the PTA rep has moved on and the cheques we sent were returned to us so if you think you may be due some money give us a phone or email us with the right contact person and you could be due some much  needed cash!

Red plastic band mountains

I read in the Telephgraph on Wednesday 15.4.09 that there  is a scheme to collect all the red plastic bands and  make a huge band mountain and drop them to the Royal Mail headquaters!  I know the story…red plastic bands all up the street wherever you look.

Our postman is really good yet we get post delivered with a pile of those dreaded plastic bands around them and don’t know what on earth to do with them all. Inevitably some have been dropped down the street and if you go into any street in the UK you can probably collect a pile. The kids think it would be great like bottle and can collecting if they could collect them all and drop them back for cash!  Don’t think that one would take off though or there would be piles of rich tramps in London’s streets anyway!

I have a good idea though – I’m intrigued to hear from readers what everyone would do with theirs with a little imagination.  I am trying to see how big a ball I can make with mine, the youngest is trying to make a guitar with his, and the other two are inventing something as we speak.  Keep us updated of your inventions and what you think we should do with them all.  Does the Royal Mail really need to use them at all?  Isn’t there are more practical and less fiddly alternative out there?  Even paper wrapped around each pile surely would be better and more recyclable than the bands. I would love to see the large plastic ball dropped to Royal Mail head office when it gets there.  I could be as big as a house!

At labels4kids we keep them all and the kids invent things with them then we use them again to wrap around a pile of brochures or cards to go to the schools that are fundraising. Remember you can fundraise with labels4kids by emailing us at sales@labels4kids.com and get commission on every order. Details at http://www.labels4kids.com/page.php?xPage=fundraising.html

April 16, 2009

What’s new? GCSE baby course, spending on new borns, and truancy.

Just back from a day in London at an internet retail summit and after a very tiring but interesting day I have a few gems of wisdom to impart !  Been doing lots of reading…that trains, planes and automobile thing…. and watching lots of nutters screaming at each other on the tube was an education. Forgot how agressive it can be in the commuter belt down South!

On the plane the Daily Mail was my most interesting read. Several interesting articles to note yesterday. Did you all know that in England they are introducing a GCSE course for pupils thinking of having a baby! Oh yes, tell them how to do it and how to look after them to now days it seems. How crazy is that. Aimed at teenage girls on being a young parent and supposed to normalise their sexual activity.  Family campaigners are of course against it as promoting having a baby as being “an achievement” and as being “irresponsible” and “potentially counterproductive” naturally. Well now I’ve heard it all. Thought in Scotland that teaching them all about how to have sex and how to use contraception before they are taught a year or so later about real loving and respecting relationships was the best laugh given the high UK teen pregnancy rate but this one tops the cake.

Another article, about schools having to get tough on pupils and parents has been in the news before but is an interesting debate.  The jailing of parents in England for their children playing consistent truant was a shock for everyone but apparently is only a last resort for families where parents are not enforcing discipline and getting their kids to go to school. Much easier said than done if they have been let have their own way for the whole of primary school I know! 

Almost 1000 troublemakers were suspended from school more than ten times in England last year.  Suspension obviously is giving them what they want though – time off! Sir Alan Steer is in favour of instead of giving them time on playstations in reward for attending, giving penalties for non-attendance or misbehaviour – like detentions, confiscating mobile phones, withdrawing privileges, suspension and ultimately expulsion. Having seen this with my kids schools I have to say I think he’s right. The older two have a school where those things are done and I really think it does work.

One last interesting fact for you if you are spending money on the little toddlers.  www.gurgle.com (owned by mothercare) did a survey and the results were that £27 000 was spent raising a toddler before the age of 3. Two thirds is spent before their first birthday and even before birth. Mums spend money on acupuncture to get pregnant, trips to spas and on treatments, and then clothing or toys for the baby prior to its birth followed by a first Christmas present even though they are too young to remember it. Been there myself! Who can resist surely?

The high cost of raising kids apparently meant that 40 per cent of parents said that the cost was deferring their family expansion plans. However, note at the retail conference yesterday it was pointed out that statistically there is currently a BABY BOOM so perhaps that with everyone out of work they have more time on  their hands!!! Who knows.  We had better be prepared for a boom here at www.labels4kids.com in the next few years once they start school! Here’s a great starter pack for your babies bottles and daycare if you are just getting ready for an imminent arrival at http://www.labels4kids.com/product.php/11/2/ 

Starter vinyl pack of vinyl labels in pink with flowers image

April 14, 2009

Curing ailments with the blood type diet – is it all baloney?

A new week and a new diet!  Well not the normal sort you’re all thinking of. We aren’t tring to lose weight though that would be a positive bonus I guess.  We’re trying something new out of desperation I suppose. 

One of our sons (A) has had duodenal ulcers for 4 years now, since he was 8.  One major operation and 4 years of tablets further another one is back. We even contacted the Helicobacter Foundation in Australia where Dr Marshall won the Nobel Prize for the cure to ulcers with triple treatment of antibiotics. There is currently no cure for his type (non-helicobacter ulcers) and he is not celiac, nor does he have crones disease. So it’s a mystery and he remains under hospital guidance but without any cure!

I read a book over the holidays that was lent by a friend who is a geneticist. It’s called “Eat right for your type” basically about blood type and foods. It’s written by Dr Peter d’Adamo in the US. Certain foods are like poison to your system. It reads just like A in a number of areas.  This book gives an outline of someone in A’s blood group being into active sports, having a high stomach acidity level and also being prone to ulcers. 

My son LOVES a number of the foods forbidden on this diet – like ketchup, bread, potatoes, oranges, and so on.  So what the heck.  Let’s give it a go.  We started last Friday and I have to say mum and dad are having serious bread and coffee cravings now. The boys are missing their potatoes, bread, bread crumbs, icecream, oranges and normal milk.  We are all trying to do it together as thankfully we are all the same blood type which makes things a bit easier.  We are missing all the sauces like vinegar in salad dressing, our orange juice and lots more. Chocolate, thank goodness, is permitted!

I wonder if it will prove anything at the end of the day?  We’ve done all this before with an egg and dairy free diet for 4 months and it showed nothing concrete but I have to say on a different note, his sinuses were much improved. I have heard of sinuses being linked to dairy foods. That diet was hard enough but this one is a shocker.  It’s basically wheat free but with a lot else off the list too.  I should say, we are getting guidance from a d’adamo trained homeopath on this but even so, hard going.

I really feel for all those coeliacs and gluten free people out there, especially the kids. I didn’t realise how disgusting the gluten free bread is. What a shock to the system. Also in Sainsburys the other day half the packs of bread in the “free-from” section were mouldy!  Can’t be great turnover on those.  Tesco was much better and seems to have a bigger range in our area anyway. There’s something quite frustrating though about having to rake the tiny area (bottom shelves) of the supermarket dedicated to this food types.

In a way I pray it proves nothing  but I figure that at the very least we will know in a month if we feel better or worse eating these restricted foods, if we lose weight, and if we could do it for life or not. I’m hoping by gradually reintroducing certain foods we may see if any play up with his stomach causing severe pains.  What will be a mystery I guess, is whether or not it heals A’s ulcers!  C’est la vie.  Fingers crossed for something anyway. Will keep you all updated on my thoughts on this diet in future updates.

Anyone else tried it and did it cure anything for you?

Anyone heard of any other cures for duodenal ulcers other than the triple treatment of antibiotics for helicobacter? 

Would be interested in finding possible cures if anyone out there knows more than we do here in Scotland.  Thanks to anyone willing to offer any advice.

What’s different about the Swedish education system?

Was talking with friends from Sweden on the weekend about education.  In the UK as with many other Countries our kids start as early as 3 or 4 and finish around the age of 17 ( a total of up to  15 years in education).  By contrast Sweden for example has only 9 compulsory years of education ending at the same age and they do just as well if not better in the world at large as far as securing good jobs and gaining good grades in further education.  If this is the case then what makes kids good learners?

I predict that it is obviously not the length of time they spend in school. In Sweden they concentrate on more rounded education, more outdoor activities and sport and more touring places/trips. Here in Scotland anyway the schools are starting to go the same route. Are we pushing them out of the nest too young?  I remember vividly 2 of my boys screaming and hanging onto me getting dropped aged 2.5 to 3 to the local playgroups.  It was so stressful. But the pressure was on to get back to work and therefore the kids had to get a move on into the education system.  In Sweden there is extended parental leave for both parents and also help with childcare arrangements and funding.  Seems a pretty good system overall but on the positive side for the UK, I think if mine were home to the age of 7 I would also have gone nuts!

April 4, 2009

Yippee, the Easter bunny’s coming!

The first thing my son said when his holiday started was “Yippee, the Easter bunny’s coming”…so much for the religious aspect of it all then.  I guess that is what life is like these days. Everything is so commercialised. He even gave the bunny a ranking of 10/10 versus Santa gets about an 8/10 but he doesn’t want the bunny to tell Santa.  Fat chance there son!

The Evangalical Alliance compiled a list of facts and I will kindly reproduce them here for your benefit. Did you know :

  1. That 80 million eggs are produced a year in the UK
  2. Most kids get 5 chocolate eggs each
  3. Most kids double their calorie intake for the week in that one week so instead of eating around 2000 they can be eating as much as 10000 calories for the week in some cases (thank goodness it isn’t an ongoing feast then)
  4. The first chocolate eggs were produced in the 19th century as gifts
  5. Real eggs were decorated and coloured in the middle ages as Easter Gifts
  6. Creme eggs are the most popular worldwide eggs (personally I can’t stand them but the kids love them)
  7. £280 million was spent on chocolate eggs in the 4 days leading up to Easter in 2008!
  8. Eggs were a symbol of life and fertility in the pre-Christian times and later then they became a symbol of Christianity because of this.

I am feeling really good that mine get only a good sized one from Aunty and Nan in Scotland and “the Bunny” only drops little ones around the garden on his travels past the house…probably because he knows mum likes the little caramel ones!  Sometimes it is handy that the rest of the relatives live abroad as piles of chocolate eggs would be demolished in no time in this house. They have no self control on that front and the hiding places from in the oven, in the dishwasher, even in the washing machine, are no longer a secret here.

It is only once a year so enjoy but do remember to let them know there is a real reason for having Easter in the first place, and that isn’t chocolate I’m afraid.  Have a great Easter everyone from Ann-Maree.

April 3, 2009

“How to guide” now live

The labels4kids “how to guide” is in full swing. Some of our videos are now live on you tube and other video channels, plus you can see the full range as and when they are added on our site too. Go to http://www.labels4kids.com/page.php?xPage=videos.html or the page called Instructional Videos from the information section down the left side of our website.  Click on any that may interest you and you can turn off the funky music if you hate it or are logging in at work over your lunch!  I hope they help you work out what name labels to buy in future. Enjoy.

Height and what determines our kids size?

I heard an interesting discussion the other day on the radio about children’s heights.  There was no solution unfortunately and I’d like to know what it is.  Did you know that a son is NEVER smaller in height when he reaches adulthood that his mother?  Why is that? Know one seems to know.  Is it anything to do with being a man he will generally be bigger?  Is it because he takes the genes from the taller of his parents and multiplies them?  Is it because generally women marry men that are taller than them out of choice and because the man is taller then the son will follow suit? 

If anyone knows if this is true or what the answer is I’m sure many of our readers would be interested to know why…so bear in mind that your sons, if you have them, are going to outgrow you are be lying across that full length sofa in front of the sports channels one day irritating you like mad….you are going to need your own chill out room mum. I’m all for that!

What’s wrong with a hard head?

I know you have all missed me this week!  I have missed you!  Oh, and I think I must really have some form of addiction missing my laptop after 5 days off work having decided for a change NOT to take my laptop but just to phone in to check on things I actually had twitchy fingers!  Yes I swear I could have restled one of the Dutch guests at the hotel for their laptop by 3 days in…but I controlled myself and now I can let lose with my latest rantings.

My well deserved break for a spot of skiing led me to think of Natasha Richardson yet again.  What surprised me is that I didn’t take up the option for a crash helmet.  Why?  I don’t know really. In Europe kids must wear helmets skiing and ours do. 

This time though I was pleasantly suprised to see that unlike most ski trips when everyone wears their fancy hats and woollies about half the adults had taken on the option for a free helmet. I think after seeing that the first day I would have happily taken one the second day but I didn’t force myself to go and ask for one did I!  It’s probably all to do with being thought to be cool really. I think if helmets were made compulsory for skiing, as they should be for cycling too, then everyone would just take one and everyone would be the same.  Because it is optional and you don’t know if it’s the thing to do or you will be the one and only adult with a sweaty crash helmet then of course you don’t bother unless of course you are an A&E surgeon or something and see the list of head injuries coming through your door!

I am pleased to see everyone is starting to wear them and have told myself I really MUST get one next time we go.  I am one of the lucky ones not having had any fall but it isn’t even that is it?  It’s like driving. It is the other people you need to worry about. The boarders flying down the hill behind you, or the new UK arrivals who are learning the ropes and screaming down the hill ending up with broken arms on day 1 (so our hotel manager told us).

One thing I did get great use of was my vinyl labels which we took to put on our skiis and sticks. That way we couldn’t lose them no matter what.  The kids had helmets and stuck small vinyl labels on them too.  Much easier to work out whose is whose when they are both the same size and colour too.

But really what is wrong with a hard head anyway?  There were some really cool helmets in the ski hire shop and now did you know you can even buy a trendy hat to go OVER the helmet with red punks pikes like a porcupine and all.  Here’s for making helmets COMPULSORY worldwide for both cycling and skiing.  I hope they do.  What do you think?  Do your kids wear cycle helmets?  If not why not?  Think of all those cars and buses out there and wear one. Your life has got to be worth it.